I’m only 13 but i know a lot for my age. this year I found out about myself that I’m Bisexual. When I told my parents they laughed at me and said that I didn’t know what bisexual meant and I do but they wouldn’t listen. and ever since I told them its all going down hill. I get picked on 24/7 in school by almost everyone. I only have 12 friends out of like 305 and most my friends get picked on for hanging out with me so I’m slowly losing them. some of my friends thought it was awesome and copied me and now they get picked on it feels like my fault. I tell myself every day it’ll get better but it just get worse and I just cant take it anymore. I need some ones advice. Got any?
Wow, that is so lame that people are bullying you for coming out as bi. It just goes to show how scared they are of anyone that is different than them. I am really concerned when you say you’re being picked on 24/7. That’s not cool and nobody should have to deal with that! There are a few things you and your friends can do to handle this.
The first one is to stand up to these bullies. Think about the types of things they’re saying and have a talk with your friends about some responses you could give to defend yourself. This will also help to unite your friends together so that they don’t get picked off by the bullies. Stay strong and have each others’ back! If you need help coming up with what to say, you can email me the types of things they’re saying and I can help you brainstorm.
If standing up to them doesn’t make them back down or if it gets worse, it’s time to tell your school administrators. Visit the front office before or after school and tell them you have an issue you need help with. Your administrators should take the appropriate steps to handle the bullying.
You can also contact an organization called The Trevor Project. They help LGBT youth deal with bullying and do a lot of work around preventing suicide. But you don’t need to be suicidal to get their help! They have lots of resources that are relevant to you. You can call their hotline 24/7 (1-866-488-7386) or you can just IM them http://www.thetrevorproject.org/lifelinechat
I know it seems like things are just going to keep slipping downhill, but believe it or not, it won’t always be like this. Give it some time and stay active in defending yourself, whether that’s by standing up to them, getting help from adults in your life, or contacting Trevor. Eventually, it will be resolved, and you won’t have to deal with bullying anymore. There’s nothing wrong with being bi and you don’t deserve to be treated that way! Try not to let them get to you, and if you’re having a bad day or feeling sad about it, find someone you trust to talk openly about it when you need to.
Sending you hugs and fierceness.